Anger : How to Safe Your Relationship?

“Anger comes from the devil, the devil was created of fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when one of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.” [Abu Daud; Book 41, No. 4766]

See that? ANGER COMES FROM THE DEVIL.

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When u find urself upset tahap maksima with ur frenz or sum1 else, take proactive steps to manage it in a positive way to avoid damaging relationship or something bad happen or kerugian harta benda akibat dibaling2 :)- itu normal.

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If sum1 offends u, wait for the right time and let the person know that u tak puas hati dgn dia n so on.  Be a good listener first. Give the person chance to xplain their intentions kot2 u yg salah faham ke..

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When sum1 hurts u physically or mentally and etc, either u'r wrong or otherwise, ask for forgiveness. Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge you know? Learn to forgive and forget and move on. “Indeed, Allah loves those who do good.” [Sūrah Āl `Imrān: 134]

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If ur friend repeatedy offends you, okey takpe. cool~ you need to step back from the relationship. Give the person time to reflect on his/her behaviour on in another word, bg dia muhasabah diri, k?

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